You've got to hand it to him.This man can SPEAK.The words that come out of his mouth have the perfect mixture of emotion, conviction, and power... it makes people LISTEN.
It makes people MOTIVATED...
And most importantly, it makes people TRUST HIM...
Sure, he probably has a genius of a speech-writer working for him behind the scenes, but regardless, his speeches are delivered impeccably.
But no... Obama doesn't have some sort of "magic touch" that we don't.There's no secret formula that one can possess to make them an extraordinary speaker.This skill can be learned.
So why would you want to learn this?
Just imagine how EASY it would be to talk to girls if they were immediately interested in you just by the way you talked to them...
Let me tell you one technique Barack Obama employs in his speeches that makes him so captivating...
He......speaks......very.......slowly.
Listen to one of his speeches and you'll know what I'm referring to. Those little subtle pauses that he makes between phrases can make the WORLD of a difference. Speaking slowly conveys that you are completely unaffected by your surroundings and you’re completely chill.
And... that you’re COMFORTABLE!Convey that you don’t get psychologically FREAKED OUT the moment you see and talk to a beautiful girl.
Try this tactic yourself!
In my program, I tell exactly what you need to do to make yourself a better speaker.
I'll show you the exact exercises you need to do to quickly become a "Barack Obama" yourself and make those women swoon for you.
We all know how unstable the economy is right now- but for all of you guys out there wanting to find a girl, things may actually be looking up...
Let me tell you right now that amidst this economic recession, one of the industries that’s BOOMING is the online dating industry.
Yes.Sometimes there are some things that are just worth way more important than money... sex and love are two of them!
Match.com, E-Harmony, Plentyoffish.com...they are all posting record high memberships numbers.And what does that mean for you?
There are more women dating online right now than ever!Whoever said online dating was just a fad several years ago are biting their tongues now!
So sure... that also means more GUYS than ever are dating online.This is why I’m here to tell you in this special article that... it doesn’t matter!I am going to give you the tools you want FOR FREE.
That’s right.Want to learn how to make profiles that will magnetically attract the women you really want?Do you want to know what to write in those “Interest Boxes”?Do you want to know what to say to a woman to make her SWOON for you...and create a level of mystery that will make bedding her easier than ever?
For many men, this is the first step... but a lot of guys have no idea how to make the first conversation COMFORTABLE for the girl...
And on the phone, you can’t engage in physical flirting or convey attractive body language...
So WHAT you say and HOW you say it is EVERYTHING!
So what’s the quickest way to make her feel comfortable?
There’s something you can do in the first 3 seconds of a phone conversation to settle things down...
I call it the “Voice Disqualifier.”
Some of you advanced PUA’s may already know what I’m referring to here.
So how do you do it?
As soon as she says something... say something like... “Are you sick?Dude, you sound like a dude right now.Haha.”
Say it with the right voice tonality and you’re gold.
If you say it properly, her initial reaction will be playful as well.This will immediately put you two in the right mindset for a nice, comfortable, stimulating, and enjoyable conversation!
So what do you do after this?
I teach you a bunch of ways that you can boost your phone game on my website...
Here’s what I’ve learned over the past few years when it came to phone game...
WOMEN LOVE TEXT MESSAGES.
You’ll notice that if you ever text message a girl, they’ll almost ALWAYS text you back.It’s just an easy way to open a line of communication with girls you’ve just met.
I would have to say that the easiest way to establish a comfortable connection is through text messaging!
Here’s a little routine that you can use to build attraction with a beautiful girl through text messaging...
Say something like this...
“Hey, I saw a movie last night.It reminded me of you.”
She’ll most likely say something like...
“Aww, what movie was it?”
At the point... say... “I can’t remember... but the dog’s whine sounded just like you. :)”
Remember the emoticons, here!
Text messaging is a great way to build easy value.Keep this in mind!
On my website, I’ll tell you how you can learn how to build attraction through simple words... via text, e-mail, Facebook messages, and much... much more!
How the hell do you turn on a girl...? SEXUALLY... through instant messenger conversations?
Sure, some girls just don’t dig the whole “cyber” thing... but how do you know if you’ve got one that does?
Let me teach you how you can figure out if a girl is D.T.C. (Down To Cyber)... and let me teach you how you can convert her into a girl that’s receptive to “cybering”.
Then... get her phone number and invite her over for some REAL sex...
First and foremost... do not attempt these methods unless you’ve built enough trust and attraction FIRST... you need to receive at least seven online indicators of interest before attempting any of this.And furthermore, these tactics work best for girls that you know in real life already...
I go over these in another article...
But let me tell you first the power of the “;)” emoticon.No, that isn’t a typo... it’s the WINK emoticon.The careful and precise usage of this can get you LAID, buddy!So listen up...
After a few minutes of attraction building, say something like...
“Be right back... don’t miss me TOO much... ;)”
If you’ve built enough trust and if she feels like she knows you well, she’ll be receptive to this.If not, she’ll just say something like... “lol.Ok.”
If you get that response, don’t move on...
However, if you do get a response that’s positive... when you come back, say something like... “So you missed me, huh?You know you love me. ;)”
A lot of women will respond to this in a very sexual manner if you’ve built enough trust.
After, if the response is positive, which it should be..., keep escalating!Start talking about sex... not sex between you two... but sex in general.Be descriptive.
Did you know that women generally LOVE reading about sex?Why do you think all those romance novels really get some women going...?
It’s because she fills in the blanks with her imagination.Escalating a woman through text message or instant message is a lot easier than you think...
Check out the full method on how you can ignite your instant messaging game...
Is getting a phone number from a REALLY hot chick on MSN/AIM hard?
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
Escalating a conversation from instant messenger to a phone conversation is so easy if you know what you’re doing.
This is what I call “The Broken Thumb” routine.
So you’re talking to a girl... the conversation is going well and you are receiving a ton of online IOI’s from her.You can just tell she’s interested... how do you get her number?
Say this at the beginning of your conversation...
“Wow, this hurts SO much to type right now... ugh.”
She’ll ask you why... then say...
“I sprained my thumb playing basketball today... but whatever, it was worth it.I was the hero at the game. ;)”
Then continue the conversation...
When you receive the set amount of online IOI’s, then drop the BOMB!
“Gah!My thumb is REALLY killing me now.So sick of typing... but hey I have to ask you something! Give me your phone number so my thumb doesn’t fall off...”
Works every time... ;)
I have a ton of these routines and more... I even share my concise game plan on how to talk to these girls on the phone... and eventually get in her BED with you... completely naked!
“What kind of profile picture should I use, Derek?”
Listen closely because your Facebook profile picture is one of the most IMPORTANT feature of your profile… girls simply won’t even respond to you if you have that really, really creepy picture.You know the one I’m talking about… those webcam pictures… the ones where the guy is just sitting there in front of the computer smiling?
That’s pretty much telling the world… “I’m a creep.”
Give me a minute and I’ll tell you about a picture that WILL get you laid… or at least get a phone number of that really hot chick you’ve been wanting for forever on Facebook!
This is what I like to call the “Prop Picture”.
Do you have a picture of you standing beside something really cool? I mean really, REALLY cool.
Here… this is a pic that I used that got me SO MANY responses from gorgeous girls.It was a picture of me standing in front of the Eiffel Tower with a really beautiful girl.
Here’s why this picture is so great…
First, it conveys high value – you’re showing that you love to travel and that you have the MONEY to travel.It shows that you’re adventurous and interesting.
Secondly, and most importantly, it shows that you’re pre-selected by having a beautiful woman stand beside you.This will immediately give off a positive impression.
Ever heard of THAT tip before?If you associate yourself with beautiful-looking women (even if they’re just friends!) you will automatically be deemed as much more attractive.
So that pic of me in front of the Eiffel with one of my gorgeous, stunning girlfriends got me laid countless times.You don’t have to have something as extravagant as that, though… maybe you have a picture of you surfing or maybe even just playing the guitar!
Of course there’s much more to it than just having a good profile picture… you need to know how to TALK to girls online as well.
That’s why in my program I lay out, step-by-step, everything you need to know and do to get those GORGEOUS girls on your Facebook/MySpace friends list in bed with you!
Let me tell you a girl’s biggest fear when talking to guys online...
They fear… the “CREEP”.You know the guys I’m talking about.The one’s that are just weird looking.
They look like they don’t have any friends.They look like they haven’t been laid in forever.The ones that just look like complete and total STALKERS.
And you wonder why online dating for them is so difficult?
Some guys just put things in their profiles that make them look like future rapists. Gross!
So here are six things that they’re doing wrong… Here’s profile blunder #1.
1.)They have only a few or NO pictures at all.Imagine being a good looking girl and you receive a message from some dude that has NO picture.Are you kidding?What is that guy thinking?And sorry… one or two pictures doesn’t cut it either.You really need to have a plethora of pictures that convey high value… if you don’t; you’re out of the picture entirely.
2.)If you use Facebook or MySpace… don’t put yourself as “single”.This may be counter-intuitive, but by putting yourself as single, you make the remark that you “are trying”.See what I mean?Plus it eliminates the mystery.You want to make the girl wonder… “Is he single or not?”
3.)Last but not least… PUNCTUATION AND GRAMMAR!You think that really hot chick is going to want to reply to you if your profile is riddled with spelling errors?I’m not saying that your profile content has to be at the level of Shakespeare’s, but check your writing!Use a spell checker if you have to.SHOW that you are intelligent.
So there you go, guys!Avoid these blunders at all costs.Check out my other articles or check out my FULL system at www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com
So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on Facebook…
And there she is.
The girl that catches your attention.But what do you do?Let me tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say something really generic like…
“Hey!How’s it going!You look really interesting and I was wondering if you would like to chat sometime!Hit me back!”
Or…
“Wow, you’re gorgeous.I bet you have all the guys out there hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to you because I would really like to treat you out sometime!”
Or…
“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance!You should hit me back!”
I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true.I guarantee you the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near 1% if you’re lucky.And that’s if you have a really nice profile…
So what’s the magic formula?
Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need for PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.
Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating profile is perfect!
What do I mean by this?You need to get the right pictures and right content in your profile.An attractive girl will not message you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses in your profile content.
Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can you say creep?
What kind of pictures do you need to include?Typically speaking, you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the way you’re thinking of…I’ll get to that a bit later.
The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE.Too many guys fail to personalize the first message, which is critical.There are too many cut and paste messages out there.
An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day!Do you think she’s going to have time to read all of them?Absolutely not.
You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way to do this is to personalize your message!More on this later…
Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn much!
Keep the message SHORT!Again, you need to appear like a non-creepy and non-needy guy.Again, imagine being an attractive girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL!How weird is that to her?You barely know her and already you’re willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?
She doesn’t deserve that yet.
I give you all the tips you need on my website!So you’re in luck.
A lot of guys ask me… Can I poke a girl on Facebook to start a conversation?Here’s the short answer… NO!
Sure, it’s a cool little tool to use on your friends… but for picking up beautiful women you barely know or don’t know AT ALL on Facebook?Not a chance!
Poking a girl (or cyber hugging, kissing, etc.) is pretty much useless… I mean… beautiful girls probably get poked more than the Pillsbury Dough Boy on Facebook!
And just as often, they press the “remove” button to get rid of those annoying pokes from desperate guys.I saw one of my hot girlfriend’s Facebook account and my jaw dropped.
She literally had dozens and dozens of guys poking her on a regular basis.Her e-mail account was filled with notices of guys she didn’t know poking her.
“I don’t even have time to get rid of those!” she tells me… boy, was she annoyed!
Poking a girl isn’t unique or funny… nor does it convey any value or induce any amount of attraction.
Really… nothing beats a good, solid, well-thought first message that conveys a LOT of value without sounding too cocky or arrogant… and that COMPELS her to message you back.
Typically, especially on Facebook, this can be tough.At least girls on online dating websites ARE looking for guys…
But surprisingly, building rapport with a good-looking chick on Facebook is easier than you think!
There are a few key ingredients in a first message that you really need to have.Listen carefully, here… because the first message is probably going to the most important message... or definitely one of the most important.
One of the key ingredients that your first message needs to have is a strong purpose.No, telling a girl that you barely know on Facebook that she’s cute isn’t a STRONG purpose.It’s a rather weak one.
And no… asking her to “webcam” with you isn’t going to work, either!Too many guys do that.It’s way creepy if you haven’t figured that one out yet…
A strong purpose can range from a very intriguing open-ended question to a silly little remark regarding her profile picture.No, a question like “How are you?” just won’t cut it. That may work in real life if you convey strong body language, but online, it must be much deeper… more thoughtful.
You really need to know how to push her curiosity buttons. You need to make her WANT to message you back.
I mean, you can even make a sly little judgment about her… something like… “Hey, you look like you’re on Facebook ALL the time…”
This will make her want to message you back.She doesn’t want you thinking that she’s a computer nerd that has no life… so she’s going to be compelled to message you back and correct your initial perception of her.
Really, it’s quite a simple mechanism that you can exploit.
Oh yeah, and remember… spelling and grammar is always important.
If you want to have all the tools to build rapport with girls on Facebook FAST, you have to check out my brand new course that I just released that tells guys, step-by-step, exactly how to pickup beautiful girls on Facebook.
You’ll never have to leave the house again to pickup girls… not that you SHOULD do that... but at least you’ll know how to. For the days you’re feeling lazy and you wanna get laid…
So I’ve been sitting here for the last 7 minutes in awe.
Why?Well, I’ve been looking at Facebook’s latest user-base statistics… and let me tell you something.They are absolutely staggering.As of right now…there are approximately over SIXTY-FIVE MILLION ACTIVE USERS!
Now, I don’t have to say this…but I’m going to anyways.This is a bloody gold mine for picking up women.But I’ll get to that a bit later…
I can’t even begin to imagine how hot those Facebook servers are running… because that is outrageous. Not only is their user-base absurd, but their growth has been just as despicable; 250, 000 new users every single day that passes…3% weekly growth…doubling in size every 6 months.Whew.
Apparently, according to this data, no one uses Facebook.End sarcasm!
We live in an era where almost everyone has one of these little accounts.It’s almost borderline necessary to have one of these accounts if you want to function “normally” in society… and I’ll prove it to you.
Let me tell you about one of my good buddies. His name was Andrew… and I bet everyone knows a guy like Andrew.
He HATED the whole Facebook/MySpace movement, claiming that he would never…ever…get a Facebook account.And yeah…when something is as ridiculously popular as Facebook, there are bound to be a good handful of downright HATERS.
But let’s face it.Whether you’re a Facebook junkie (…logging into your account every single day to check your wall posts and send out a few “pokes”) or just someone who absolutely despises the social-networking movement, you can’t deny the fact that it’s becoming an integral part in social dynamics.
I mean…you can keep in touch with people you would usually NEVER talk to anymore, not to mention strengthening the relationships you currently have... you get invited to more interesting “events”… you get to see what all your friends are up to at any given moment… and you get to meet some pretty neat people if you try!
But anyways… back to Andrew.He started to feel like his social-circle was leaving him.No, his friends didn’t stop talking to him because he didn’t have a Facebook account, but you could tell – he just didn’t have as many friends as everyone else did.He didn’t get invited to as many birthday party bashes or going away parties.He just didn’t get to know as many people…
You might be thinking…well, maybe Andrew is just a loser!He wasn’t.He was a pretty good-looking dude with a good head on his shoulders.
However, it was easy to see that he was a little more “disconnected” from society.And you know what? After Andrew moved back to Toronto a week ago… even I lost contact with him.
Sad, isn’t it? With some of your “not so close” friends, you almost have to RELY on another communications medium to keep in contact with them… that’s what Facebook’s for.We might as well make the most of it then.
So how am I going to tie this in with girls?
Easy.
Think about all the beautiful, gorgeous women that are on Facebook.It’s not a “nerds only” exclusive fan club anymore.THERE ARE SOME INSANELY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ON HERE!But some of you are thinking… yeah… but it’s SO easy to be labeled a “creep” if I message one of them.
I thought that too until I got to know some of the most prestigious and elite “online pickup artists” known to man.
Let me put it this way.If you know what you’re doing and you set up your Facebook/MySpace profile properly, picking up women on these websites is easy as PIE.I can teach you this precise method.
And let me tell you it is NOT the same as how you would approach a woman in real life… there are no “multiple threads” or typical “DHV” spikes (Demonstration of Higher Value) like you all may be familiar with.Doing so can get your account reported or banned for harassment.Ouch.
So do you want to learn some secrets on how to attract, meet, and seduce these beautiful women?You can get started by learning how to tweak your profile so you won’t look like another average chump on the internet… www.OnlinePickupSecrets.com.
You can sign up for my free e-course on how to attract women with just written language.I also teach some fatal mistakes all men do when talking to women online! Don’t get left out.
So get with the times!The laws of attraction have always been the same, but there is a new and easier way to use them.
We all know that MYSTERY is an integral part in attracting sexy women.But many men have absolutely no idea what REAL mystery is or how to portray it PROPERLY... especially in their online dating profiles.???
Portray mystery correctly, and you’ll have all the attraction you need to escalate your interactions to the next level.To be honest, in all my experience seducing women, portraying that element of mystery is one of the most sure-fire ways to build up a physical relationship...
So how can this be done?
First, mystery simply cannot be conveyed unless you have conveyed high value.Think about it from a girl’s perspective if you can... are you going to want to find out more about something if you know that there’s going to be NO value in the end?
Of course not!
The analogy that I like to use is the “Movie Preview” one... think of how mystery is portrayed in one of those movie trailers.They show some of the BEST parts of the movie but then... WAIT... it stops!They cut it off when the seemingly BEST part is about to come.
That’s exactly what you need to do in your real life interactions and your online dating profiles!Let me give you an example...
Say you’re filling out your “interests box” and you want to spice it up a bit... you can say like...
“And my greatest and most passionate hobby involves mixing fancy SPORTS CARS and... something else. ;) I’m not telling at this point!”
See what I mean?
You convey value at first by saying that you’re into FANCY sports cars.This, in turn, conveys that you have a passion in something very exotic.This is VERY appealing.Then, of course, you finish it off by saying that you aren’t telling.
I mean, there are tons of other examples... but you get the gist.Every good profile will have at least ONE of these.
Compel women to message you!
If you want to find out the full story on how YOU can get 4-5 messages a DAY from beautiful women online, visit my website.
Alright.I have to get this off my chest before I go INSANE...
So many guys that pickup girls online make this mistake.I mean, it seems like it would work, but it really... REALLY doesn’t.
This error that I’m referring... BRINGING UP SEX TOO EARLY!
Every guy seems to want to bring up the topic of sex way too early.DON’T.For many HIGH QUALITY women, it’s a sure sign that you’re just a horny punk with no respect.
That doesn’t mean that you can’t bring up sex... but that’s further down the road when you’ve built up enough TRUST and COMFORT... and often, I wouldn’t bring up sex until you actually MEET the girl in real life first!
Women have this negative image of how men are online... they think there are a ton of creepy guys that DON’T know how to REALLY please a woman... and by bringing up sex way too early, you are falling right into this “creepy category”...!
However, that doesn’t mean you can’t FLIRT online.You just need to know HOW to do it properly and make sure you don’t come off the wrong way.
You can convey what I call “Online IOI’s” or “Online Indicators of Interest.”An Online IOI can mean “lol’ing” at their jokes, increasing the amount of what you write, decreasing the duration of intervals between of messages, etc.
Mix these in with some “Online IOD’s” and now you have a recipe for creating a tremendous amount of attraction through your instant messages or e-mails...
Want to know the COMPLETE formula for getting those beautiful women you seen on Facebook/MySpace or online dating websites in your bed?Then check out my website where I’ll tell you... for FREE!
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