The hottest dating tips for men to date Filipino girls
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Get Noticed – 1st of the Filipino girls dating tips.
When you go to a club or a large gathering, get noticed. Good clubs or venues will have couches placed away from and slightly elevated above the dance floor. You are in a good club or venue aren't you? The best women will go to the best clubs, so why bother with second-class establishments. Find an empty couch and sit on it. Be sure to sit in the middle of the couch. Relax by leaning back. Drape one arm along the back of the couch and place the palm of the hand of the other arm against the inside of one of your thighs, towards the top but not too close to your crotch. Keep your wrists straight. Your knees should be apart and your feet should be pointing straight forward. Now survey the scene. Scan the dance floor and surrounding area for attractive women. Do this slowly by moving your head and not just your eyes, so that women will know you are looking around. Be utterly relaxed and DON'T fidget!
You WILL get noticed because of your body language. When you get eye-contact with a woman you'd like to get to know more, ensure that you don't look away and hold the eye-contact longer than her. Repeated eye-contact is a definite sign of a woman's interest, so be sure to take the invitation further.
Some Filipino girls make car interiors very hot
No Expectations – 2nd of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Too many men have expectations of possible outcomes way too early when meeting women. So when you have a date with a hot woman, don't have any other expectations than having a great time with her. Period. You must be relaxed and laid-back on the date. If you start to think about the next date or where you will take her next, you are thinking too far ahead. Live the moment. Enjoy the moment. Stay relaxed. If you start talking about having a next date or where you will take her next, it's a sign of neediness. If you try to become too serious about seeing her again, she may well never see you again because most hot women aren't looking for commitment until way further in the future. If you've had a great time meeting her, tell her and say that you'll call her sometime soon to meet again. Don't make any definite arrangements. Let her believe you have a busy and fulfilling life even if you don't just yet.
Many Filipino girls have girlfriends
Be Evasive (Mysterious) – 3rd of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Always try to answer her questions evasively. Don't give a direct answer to her. Keep an air of mystery about you. Play a game with her. If she asks you what you do, tell her something outrageous that is obviously a lie, unless something outrageous is what you actually do. It should be something crazy and zany. Say something like, “You know when sexy male Hollywood stars have close-ups of their bums. Mostly that’s me standing in for them”. Keep a straight face and chastise her if she doesn’t believe you. If she persists in asking you personal questions, say, “Is this an interview? Hey! I need to go home and put my interview suit on”. Many women use the questions they ask you as tests. They test you to see if you’ll tell them anything they want to know without hesitation. Answering most questions directly can be boring, so be humorous while being evasive and you’ll pass the test.
Filipino girls sometimes wear slinky black dresses
Be Different – 4th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Most men approach a woman that they want to pick up and then they use a pick-up line. This immediately puts the woman on the defensive and makes her very wary about the man’s intentions. Pick-up lines used on their own are generally a bad idea. There are more parts to a pick-up process than just the pick-up line. Attractive women have been approached hundreds, if not thousands, of times and have become conditioned to filter out all normal pick-up lines and they then ignore the man that has approached them. Be different! Say something crazy like "My girlfriend thinks you're hot". If you don't have a girlfriend or she's not with you, it doesn't matter. You’ve not used a pick-up line and you’ve grabbed her attention. Most women will respond in a positive way to your statement. The game is on and who knows where it will lead! You’ve probably inserted an element of sexual-tension early on in the conversation without having made a crass, overtly sexual remark. Keep moving along this path and you may even find out that the woman is bi-sexual. Where you go from there is up to you!
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Be Cocky and Funny – 5th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Use of the “Cocky and Funny” technique together with alpha male body language gets RESULTS! What is “Cocky and Funny”? It’s an attitude that borders on arrogance but is held back from being arrogant by the use of humor. The humor is directed at the woman you are with in a playful way. For example, you can criticize her outfit, her hair-style, her mannerisms or the way she speaks, but in a HUMOROUS way. When you perfect this technique, you will get a woman to look at you with an expression that says, “I can’t believe you just said that to me!” At a conscious level she will be thinking, “Is this guy being rude and offensive?”, but at an unconscious level she will be thinking, “Wow! This guy is so different to other men. He’s fun and confident and makes me feel good. I’m going to stick around and see where this leads.” It’s the UNCONSCIOUS response that matters, because it will trigger her attraction to you.
Here’s a real-life example. Back last year, I was checking out some profiles on the Internet and found a hot-looking Filipino girl whose profile was interesting. She lived in the Philippines, in the same city as me. I left her a message saying that she looked uncomfortable sitting on the stool and that maybe she needed posture lessons that would ease her tension and let her smile. Now, the first thing she mentioned in her profile was that she was a beauty queen. Most other men would pick up on that and compliment her looks straight away. Whereas, I didn’t compliment her and even found fault with her. It got me noticed because she replied a few days later. We got to chatting on the Internet during which I used the “Cocky and Funny” technique whenever I could. We proceeded to chat using webcams and it only took just a few chats before she appeared on cam in VERY revealing bed-time attire. She had already given me her phone number and she suddenly gave me her address. I did nothing that day, whereas most men would have gone straight there. I left it a few days to chat with her again and when I did, I said that I would visit her later that evening. When I arrived, she said that I’d been rude to her when we first chatted and that she wasn’t sure why she kept chatting with me. We started to watch a movie. All I will say is that I can’t remember the movie because we were both engaged in more stimulating and arousing pursuits!
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Filipino girls try to stay cool in hot warehouses
Give Her a Gift – 6th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
When you’ve just met a woman and been on a first date, don’t begin to start to think of her as a girlfriend just yet. Just see her as an attractive and fun female to be with and get to know. I’ve said before that you must not give gifts to women until you know you’re in a proper relationship and for a valid reason. NEVER give gifts to a woman to try to make her want to be with you. This will only make her FEEL, at an unconscious level, that you don’t value yourself and that you have to buy her gifts to keep her seeing you, which will cause her to become less attracted to you. Certain types of women will keep seeing you just to get gifts, which will lose you money and probably gain you nothing else.
There is one gift you can give her and it’s FREE! Give her the gift of missing you. By that, I mean until you know that a woman is special for you, don’t see her too often. Initially, only see her once or twice a week at most. If you’ve triggered her attraction to you, she will begin to miss you and she will show you that she’s missed you the next time you meet. She will also wonder what else you’re doing when you’re not with her, which will give an air of mystery. Not meeting her often also shows that you’re not needy and clinging, which can be a turn-off for women. So stay busy and get on with your life until you feel and know that a woman is special for you.
Filipino girls sometimes wear skimpy yellow shorts
Be Manly – 7th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
You have an advantage as a heterosexual in the Philippines if you want to attract women because of the bigger percentage of gays compared to Europe and the USA. I haven't been able to find any specific figures for the percentage of the male population that are homosexual, but my impression is that it's a lot higher than in Europe or the USA and that's only in terms of the overtly gay men you see. This smaller percentage of available men means that Filipino girls have less choice of men.
So, just being manly will enable you to stand out in the smaller pool of available men.
The hottest Filipino girls are attracted by men with the right attitude
Get the Attitude – 8th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
If you want to date the hottest women you need to develop the right attitude. Some of the attributes of this attitude are
- I am the prize.
- Women need to impress me.
- Women chase me, I don't chase them.
- If a woman annoys me, I have the option to walk away.
- My time is valuable, so I only spend it with women I want to be with.
This may seem self-centered and arrogant, but if you keep visualizing yourself having these attributes, your persona will change into that of a man who is confident and laid-back in the presence of hot women. Women are attracted to confident men. The arrogance should be tamed with the use of humor, as I explained in "Be Cocky and Funny".
Filipino girls as attractive as this lady should make you smile
How to Use Your Smile – 9th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Use your smile sparingly. If you constantly go around with a grin on your face, it gives you the wrong image. You'll appear to be someone who's easy to please and not thinking about anything in particular. Now don't get me wrong. I don't mean that you should have a scowl or frown on your face. You should cultivate a facial expression that consists of slightly squinting eyes, together with a slightly furrowed brow. This gives the impression of someone who's thoughtful, in control and detached from the environment. Check out Pierce Brosnan, as James Bond, to see what I mean.
Smile for a reason. Let a woman know that she's pleasing you by smiling at her. If you see a woman that you're interested by and you've both had repeated eye-contact, let her know that you appreciate her by smiling at her, but in a special way. Look her up and down twice, slowly, and then let your smile grow gradually over a few seconds. This will let her know exactly why you've smiled and that you're a confident man that's in control of his emotions. Most men will snap into a full-blown smile immediately in this situation, so you'll stand out from the crowd by being different. You'll also be a challenge to her because she'll want to find ways to please you, to make you smile again.
Filipino girls continually adjust each other's beach attire
Be Assertive and Courteous – 10th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Women are attracted to men that are in control at all times. They may talk about the dramas that occur in life, but they don't want the man they're with to cause drama.
So how should a man maintain control of all situations when he's with Filipino girls or any hot women? He should be assertive and courteous.
A man must expect and maintain high values. For example, if he's with a woman in a restaurant, he should expect to receive a level of service that relates to the quality of the establishment. In a high-class, exclusive restaurant, the service should be impeccable, whereas in a lower class restaurant the service can be at a lower standard, although it must still be acceptable. If the service begins to fall below the required standard, the man must be assertive by politely speaking with the waiter or waitress, or maître d' if necessary. It's courteous and respectful to thank the staff in the restaurant for their service and to tip them, if it's allowed. Don't go crazy with the amount of the tip. Don’t even think about trying to impress the lady you're with by leaving a large tip. She'll notice this and may well feel that you're trying to impress her, which is a sign of insecurity. Keep in mind the adage, "If you have to impress, you're not impressive".
So be assertive but not aggressive. Be courteous and never be rude.
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These 2 Filipino girls had their tops shrunk by the laundry
These 2 Filipino girls had their tops and skirts shrunk by the laundry
Sometimes a laundry will lose the tops and skirts of Filipino girls
Create the Reality You Want – 11th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Everyone has their own version of reality. We all have a map of the real world in our heads. This map, our own version of reality, can change depending on how we interpret a situation.
As an example, imagine that you've been invited for a drink by some friends. You're the last to arrive and as you walk into the bar, your friends notice you and all turn to face each other to begin talking. You can't hear what's being said.
You'll react to the situation in different ways depending on what your map of the real world situation is. You could react in a negative way and believe that your friends are saying bad things about you and don't really want you to be there, or you could react in a positive way and believe that they are saying good things about you and are relishing your company.
How you interpret the situation can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe bad things are being said about you, you may become anxious and standoffish, which will be reflected in your body language that your friends will notice, so they won't want to talk to you. If you believe good things are being said about you, your body language will be more open, welcoming and confident, so your friends will want you to be there.
Let's relate this to approaching hot Filipino girls or any hot women. If you believe that the woman you're approaching wants you to approach her, your body language will become that of a confident man who's in control of the situation, which she'll pick up on and welcome your approach. Always believe that women want you to approach them.
I'll cover your belief system and your "inner game" in other dating tips in the future.
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Filipino girls check that each other's beach attire is secure
Choose Your Words Carefully – 12th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
It should go without saying that you need a positive frame of mind when you approach women. We all have an inner voice that we hear inside our heads. Be very careful about what words you let your inner voice use.
When you're about to approach a woman, you'll be deciding what to say to her and your inner voice may react to this. If your inner voice reacts and speaks to you, you can't help but listen to it. You must consciously change any negative phrases that it uses.
What do I mean by a negative phrase? The following sentence will tend to bring about a negative emotion or feeling. It's raining heavily but I have to walk to the store. By changing one word, you'll feel different about the previous sentence. Change the "but" to "and". It's raining heavily and I have to walk to the store.
So what's going on here? The use of "but" tends to make the phrase that follows it seem to have a negative effect. The phrase following "but" is given more authority. The use of "and" gives equal authority to the preceding and following phrases. With the use of "and", "it's raining" is just a fact that isn't a daunting prospect.
So how should this be applied when approaching women? Your inner voice may speak to you and say something like "I'm ready to hit on that woman but she's so hot". You'll know what to do by now. Change the "but" to "and" to get "I'm ready to hit on that woman and she's so hot", which will take away any doubt about your approach.
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Some Filipino girls get dressed to relax
Slow Down – 13th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
One of the attributes a man must have to attract hot women is to be in control. If you rush around or if you make wild gestures or if you let your gaze dart around or if you speak too fast, these are all signs that you're not in control.
Slow down. Walk around methodically with a smooth glide that has no semblance of rushing. Make controlled gestures with straightened arms. Scan your eyes slowly around a scene. Speak slowly and clearly.
Slowing yourself down also does something else. Most people want to have more time to do what they want. The illusion of having more time has much the same effect as having more time. Being with someone that creates the illusion of there being more time, by making time seem to pass more slowly, is pleasant and relaxing. By slowing yourself down in ways suggested above, you'll seem to make time pass more slowly.
Women will notice a man that stands out from the crowd of people rushing around. It's one aspect of getting women to become attracted to you. When you begin to cause attraction and a woman is with you, she'll become even more attracted to you if you relax her by making time seem to pass more slowly.
So, slow down. Try it and you'll be pleasantly surprised.
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Some Filipino girls create tremendous tension in their costume straps
How to Build Sexual Tension – 14th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Sexual tension is created by the anticipation of things that may happen.
You can trigger it by mismatching your communication. Do this by alternating between being serious and flirting.
Take two steps forward, one step back.
Here are some examples of how to create and maintain the state of sexual tension.
- If she's ready to be kissed, lean in closely and look at her lips, then say "Is it OK if I kiss you?" When she says yes, say "I'll be sure to do that sometime".
- When things are progressing well, tell her she'll be a really great friend. That will mix up her emotions and she'll try even harder to make you want her.
- Kiss her and then tell her to stand up. When she does, spank her ass and tell her that was for her being a good kisser.
- Caress her gently and then suddenly bite her on her shoulder. Tell her you were checking if she tasted good because you only want tasty friends.
- Keep pushing the "friend" aspect, but sometimes act as if she's already an intimate girlfriend.
- When she leans in to kiss you, tell her she can when she's massaged your neck first.
- Interpret some of her comments as sexual innuendo. When she tells you she wants you to take her home, look at your watch and say "We've only been talking for 30 minutes. I'm not that easy!"
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Filipino girls like these should be approached boldly
Be Bold – 15th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Women, especially hot women, should be approached in a bold and confident manner. Hot women especially, have an instinct at the unconscious level to detect lack of confidence and neediness.
You must also seize opportunities without a second thought, so always be alert and on the look out. If you see any hot Filipino girls or any hot women on a busy street, you must approach them immediately before they have a chance to become lost in the crowd.
You don't really need to say anything specific, but a cocky and funny statement should grab the woman's attention. It could be something like what follows.
You walk up to the woman and say "Hi". If she ignores you or pays little attention to you, keep walking alongside her for a few seconds and say "Yeah. I know my amazing good looks are intimidating to most women". Now, if you're an average looking guy, this will show her that you're not intimidated by her good looks and should get you past her wussy filters for you to carry on flirting with her. Indeed, she may be so shocked by you're confidence that she'll respond with a flirty remark herself, so it's game on!
Don't spoil things by lingering too long with her. Maybe have a quick drink with her and be sure to end the interaction when it's on a high note and progressing well. This will mark you out as a man that's confident around hot Filipino girls or any hot women and who isn't in desperate need of a date. Get her number and tell her "I'll call you later in the week to continue developing our friendship". If she's become attracted to you, she'll be disappointed that you just want to develop a friendship and when you do meet her again she'll want to prove to you that she wants to be more than a friend!
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Filipino girls like this have phone numbers
How to Get a Woman's Phone Number – 16th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
It's simple to get a woman's phone number without even asking for it! Huh! "How can that be?" you say. It's all down to human psychology that applies to Filipino girls or any women. So read on.
You'll be able to approach hot Filipino girls and any hot women, and begin to attract them by using information given in previous "Latest Dating Tips". Keep your first conversation with them short and up-beat, probably no longer than a few minutes. Say something like "It was nice talking with you. I'm going off to meet some of my friends now", to end the conversation. This will surprise the woman because most men will try to prolong their initial conversation with a woman in the hope that something may happen.
When the woman is in this surprised state and as you're walking away, suddenly turn back and ask her if she has an email address. Note that you're not actually asking her to give you her email address and in her surprised state, she'll probably want to give it to you anyhow. As she's writing it down, say "Write your number down there as well".
The psychology of what's happened is that she's already agreed to give you her email address, so giving you her phone number as well is only a tiny step in comparison to giving you her phone number on its own. As I said at the start, you will have her phone number WITHOUT asking for it because you TOLD HER to write it down!
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Filipino girls occasionally keep abreast with furniture design
Seduction isn't Necessary – 17th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
Many men use seduction techniques to be with women. It's just not necessary.
What do I mean by seduction? To me, seduction is a process of enticing women that is mainly purely for the benefit of the man. It’s primarily a one-way process. Whereas, attraction is a naturally occurring process that benefits the man and woman, or women.
Seduction can cause a woman to regret her actions later. Whereas, attraction will cause no regrets because the man and woman both want to be with each other for fun and pleasure.
So, don't use seduction. It's not necessary. Keep away from the dark side and both you and the women you're with will have more pleasure.
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Filipino girls occasionally wear tiny red bikinis
Attraction – 18th of the Filipino girls dating tips.
I'm going to take this opportunity to revisit the concept of attraction. Attraction is the essence of having the ability to be with women you desire.
Attraction isn't a conscious choice. It's triggered at an unconscious level. It's not a logical process. A woman may think, at a conscious level, that she has a list of attributes for her perfect man. Maybe she's even written them down. When a woman begins to feel attraction for a man, because that's what it is, a feeling, she won't consciously know why she feels the way she does.
Let me repeat a very important point. ATTRACTION ISN'T A LOGICAL PROCESS. No amount of logical reasoning will cause a woman to become attracted to you. She may, over a period of time, like to be with you, but she's very unlikely to WANT to be with you. Liking and wanting are very different. A liking can be controlled, while a powerful enough wanting can be uncontrollable.
You MUST trigger attraction very soon after you approach a woman. If you use the correct body language, you can begin to trigger attraction as you approach a woman.
I'm also going to repeat that NO AMOUNT OF LOGICAL REASONING with a woman is likely to cause her to become attracted to you. Many men have fallen down trying to do this. If you realize that you're trying to logically reason with a woman to cause attraction, walk away. Then, when you're on your own, out of site of anyone, hit yourself HARD across the face to make you come to your senses.
It's a simple choice. If you want a woman to like you, just hang around her using logical reasoning. If you want a woman to WANT you, trigger attraction quickly.
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